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How To Change Your Reality

Have you ever wondered why two people can experience the same event but perceive it completely differently? The answer lies in our perception, influenced by our beliefs and viewpoints. Understanding and challenging these elements can transform our reality.

The Nature of Reality

Reality, at its core, is a construct influenced by individual perception. While objective reality refers to the world as it is, subjective reality is the world as we perceive it through our unique lenses. Our brains continuously interpret sensory inputs, creating a personal version of reality based on our past experiences, emotions, and beliefs.

Perception acts as the lens through which we view and interpret the world. It’s shaped by our sensory input—what we see, hear, touch, taste, and smell—and the cognitive processes that our brain uses to make sense of this information. Thus, perception is not a passive receipt of information but an active, interpretive process.

The Power of Viewpoint

Our viewpoint, both physically and mentally, plays a crucial role in determining what we see and understand. Where we direct our focus determines the information we gather, while everything outside our focus remains in the periphery, often unnoticed. For instance, when staring at a painting, our focus might be on a specific detail, missing out on the broader composition that tells a different story.

While our eyes focus on one area, there's a wealth of information outside our direct line of sight. This peripheral vision reminds us that our perception is inherently limited. By acknowledging this limitation, we can begin to appreciate the broader context that we often overlook.

The Impact of Belief Systems

Our belief systems, shaped by what we consider our personal truths, heavily influence our perception of reality. Personal truths are a mix of natural truths (universal, objective facts) and learned truths (beliefs acquired through personal experience and cultural context). These learned truths become the lens through which we view the world, affecting every aspect of our perception.

Beliefs are formed through a complex interplay of upbringing, culture, and personal experiences. For instance, someone raised in a family with strong cultural traditions will have a different belief system compared to someone from a more diverse cultural background. These differences shape how we interpret events, interact with others, and understand the world.

Changing Your Reality

To change our reality, we must start by questioning and examining our beliefs. This process involves introspection and a willingness to challenge what we’ve always accepted as true. Techniques such as mindfulness, meditation, and critical thinking can help us identify and question these beliefs.

By altering our belief system, we can change our perception of reality. This transformation begins with small steps, like questioning a single belief, and observing how it alters our understanding and interaction with the world. Over time, this practice can lead to profound changes in how we perceive and experience reality.

The Science of Perception and Belief

Research in cognitive psychology and neuroscience provides valuable insights into how our perception and beliefs are formed and changed. Studies on cognitive biases, such as confirmation bias, show how we tend to favor information that confirms our preexisting beliefs, reinforcing our subjective reality. Neuroplasticity, the brain's ability to reorganize itself, illustrates how changing our thought patterns can physically alter our brain structure, enabling new ways of thinking and perceiving.

Consider the case of individuals overcoming deeply ingrained prejudices. For instance, someone raised in a racially biased household might initially hold prejudiced beliefs. However, through education, exposure to diverse perspectives, and critical self-reflection, they can challenge and change these beliefs, leading to a more inclusive and empathetic perception of reality.


Perception, viewpoint, and belief systems are pivotal in shaping our reality. By recognizing the limits of our perception and the power of our beliefs, we can start to transform our understanding of the world.

I encourage you to reflect on your own beliefs and perceptions. Start small—question one belief and observe how it changes your reality. Remember, the journey to transforming your reality begins with challenging your personal truths.

By questioning your personal truths and expanding your perspective, you can begin to see the world in a new light. The journey to changing your reality starts with a single step: challenging your beliefs.

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